{"id":6794,"date":"2018-10-13T11:59:19","date_gmt":"2018-10-13T10:59:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/embodiedfacilitator.com\/?p=6794"},"modified":"2018-10-13T11:59:19","modified_gmt":"2018-10-13T10:59:19","slug":"104-conflict-power-and-chicken-flaying-with-stephen-kotev","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/embodimentunlimited.com\/104-conflict-power-and-chicken-flaying-with-stephen-kotev\/","title":{"rendered":"104. Conflict, Power and Chicken Flaying &#8211; with&nbsp;Stephen Kotev"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">My ole brother arms and conflict resolution specialist&nbsp;<\/span><span class=\"s2\">Stephen Kotev, joins me for some rough-diamond&nbsp;fun. We talk growing up in conflicted families, how conflict is about more than words and logic, Paul Linden, fight-flight and the physiology of conflict, self regulation and the best quick-win centring techniques, how to stop&nbsp;interrupting&nbsp;and listen better (guilty), aikido vs BJJ, the joys of competition,&nbsp;humility&nbsp;in martial arts,&nbsp;authenticity&nbsp;vs tricks in&nbsp;conflict,&nbsp;physical&nbsp;vs&nbsp;verbal&nbsp;triggers, why guns are fun and he&nbsp;offers&nbsp;a&nbsp;final&nbsp;challenge&nbsp;to kill and flay a poor little chicken.&nbsp;<\/span><span class=\"s1\">This one is quite sweary and non PC from the start, so avoid it if you are comically weak millennial who does not take responsibility for their own reactions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s3\"><a href= \"http:\/\/www.stephenkotev.com\/\">http:\/\/www.stephenkotev.com<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\n<!-- iframe plugin v.5.2 wordpress.org\/plugins\/iframe\/ -->\n<iframe style=\"border:none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/7166807\/height\/100\/width\/\/thumbnail\/yes\/render-playlist\/no\/theme\/custom\/tdest_id\/572277\/custom-color\/008080\" height=\"100\" width=\"100%\" scrolling=\"no\" 0=\"allowfullscreen\" 1=\"webkitallowfullscreen\" 2=\"mozallowfullscreen\" 3=\"oallowfullscreen\" 4=\"msallowfullscreen\" class=\"iframe-class\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe>\n<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/embodimentpodcast.libsyn.com\/104-conflict-power-and-chicken-flaying-withstephen-kotev?tdest_id=572277\"><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My ole brother arms and conflict resolution specialist&nbsp;Stephen Kotev, joins me for some rough-diamond&nbsp;fun. 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